We at Women’s Health Practice strongly advocate for safe sex, which, for most, includes using a condom during intercourse. Unfortunately, only about 5% of men worldwide actually use a condom—a surprising number, given the ideal goal is closer to 100%. Not using a condom increases your risk not only of unintended pregnancy but also of contracting various STDs. It’s always better to prevent these STDs than rely on treatment afterward. Even Olympic athletes understand this; for example, athletes were supplied with over 100,000 condoms during the South Korea Olympic Games. A full 300,000 were provided in the Paris Games to the athlete village. If condoms offer such effective protection, why aren’t more men using them?
Several common reasons may deter men from using condoms
1. Latex Allergy: Latex is the material used for most condoms, and those with latex allergies may avoid them altogether. However, other materials, including polyurethane, lambskin (actually made from lamb intestines), and female condoms, provide alternatives. So allergies should not be an excuse.
2. Worry About Sensation: Some men avoid condoms, thinking compression reduces sensation. However, studies show sex can be just as enjoyable with a condom. Knowing you’re protecting against STDs and unwanted pregnancies can ease the mind and may even enhance the experience.
3. Assumptions About Birth Control: Relying on a partner’s birth control method seems convenient, but it’s not always safe or effective alone. Birth control prevents pregnancy, but it won’t reliably prevent STDs. Using a condom adds necessary protection.
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1. Choose the Right Condom: Experiment with different brands to find the best fit, texture, thickness, and material. Consider lubricated options or other features tailored to your preference.
2. Check Expiration Dates: Expired condoms may weaken, increasing the risk of breakage.
3. Store Condoms Properly: Avoid keeping condoms in high temperatures or exposing them to sunlight for prolonged periods.
4. Open Carefully: Avoid tearing condoms with sharp objects. Use fingers carefully to open the wrapper.
5. Proper Application: Squeeze the air out of the tip before putting it on, and make sure it’s completely unrolled with a small space at the tip for semen.
6. Use the Right Lubricant: Oil-based lubricants can weaken latex condoms. Always use a water- or silicone-based lubricant to ensure safety.
The most important point is consistency: use a condom every time you have sex.
A condom is only effective when worn correctly and consistently.
If you’ve done everything correctly and a condom still breaks, don’t panic. Emergency contraception is available and can be used up to five days afterward. For more questions, reach out to your primary care physician or a trusted healthcare provider.
Remember: Condoms are affordable, effective tools to prevent pregnancy and reduce the spread of STDs. It’s far better to be safe now than regret it later.
